Posts tagged relationships
Love Gridlock : When we stop listening

They say you are most pensive when you're half asleep. I will probably need pegs to hold my lids open but my brain has a mind of its own. I am very sleepy writing this post. So a dear friend of mine sent me an article on “How to keep love going strong”, . I didn't want to read it at first but as usual, during those mindless rounds you do on your phone you end up reading anyway. In any case, Love others, isn't really on my list right now. All hail the Self-love campaign.

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F*** Love, How about a little respect?

My mother told me this some time ago. She said, “Maame, you are an intelligent girl, there are things you will see, hear and learn that will be hard to ignore. You will want to speak up because your mind will tell you this isn’t right. But speaking up won’t always give you happiness. You will have to make a decision every day. You have to find your power but with wisdom”

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Without Secrets

I won't tell a man everything about me in a relationship. Nope. Yes I am literally shaking my head with my eyes closed. Meaning I don't believe you can change my mind. Before you jump at me with questions of trust and transparency in the success of a relationship  I believe it is for the very success of the relationship that I will shut my mouth about certain aspects of my life. Oh yes indeed.Why?

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